HA! I love that last part LKT. Love that you are doing and being the work and willing to look at every angle.
Keep bringing your reflections, boldness and heart with that guy. If you are willing, place a picture of your dad and Emory next to you when you are coaching Don. This will remind you of why you get triggered and the greatness we all have inside of us (like magic of a child). Keep being a demand for support and most importantly being you. You totally got this.