Automatic past based response; not distinguished.
No responsibility or power.
People either try to do it perfectly to please the coach, wait till the last minute, or avoid it altogether.
Automatic response from people. “You’re not the boss of me.”
Implies they are weak and need you.
Resentment is imminent.
Internal conversation, based on outside circumstances, forces and people.
Implies that there is one “right” answer.